It's Upto You

Everyone goes through their ups and down

The cycle of any relationship entails that some days walls will be hit

Doesn't mean they're locked doors, steel roofs , barred and hammered shut

No, that's only the response to the hurt at its peak and ego making you weak

It's easy to shut out, it's never easy to let in

It takes the heart to soften and the soul to understand the real 'win'

Not everything is meant to last, not everything is good for you

But somethings just take time, and somethings are a direct result of what we do or don't do

It's really a matter of priority and goals

I don't suppose it's the best situation if the one you're with is walking a different path than you

But I do say, it'll take time before that's determined

When it's clear then whatever you do becomes an easier move

But when you're battling your own insecurities, weakness and level of arrogance

You'll find no matter your move, you'll be broken in two

Every relationship goes through it's up and downs

That's how we build castles - one brick at a time

When we mess up; it takes knocking it down to start it up again

Construction needs cooperation; one lays the cement, the other places the brick

It's upto you if you want it to be made of gold and silver

Or if you're fine with rock and mud

Either way, roles will always differ

But the idea is that each job supports one another

In the end, we're designed to preserver

Eventually you'll realize wallowing in your own anger or emotional clatter, only makes you the loser...